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So, Yesterday. . .

So, Yesterday. . .

The girls and I headed up to New York. There was a little traffic on the Parkway, a less than usual backup into the Lincoln Tunnel, and free valet parking at Port Authority. We parked, went down to the subway, and into the American Museum of Natural History.

Bought the combination tickets – went to see the Frogs first. We really, really liked the frogs. They were beautiful and fascinating, and since this was a school day for many, and too early in the year for field trips, we had two docents following us in the exhibit and giving us even more information than the displays did. We had a little time, so besides getting some ridiculously overpriced food for lunch, we visited the new evolution exhibit. It was OK, but there were certain things that were put in to placate people who might be disturbed by the idea of human evolution, like a video featuring scientists explaining how religion and spirituality were important to understanding our development, and some information about hominids that shared ancestry with us but weren’t our actual predecessors that was buried in display text. Coulda been better.

Next, we went to the Mythical Creatures exhibit. Some of the display items and information were splendid, but it was a fairly small exhibit that seemed aimed at a much younger demographic than I’d hoped for. We wandered some more, tried to find some things we hadn’t seen before, looked closer at some things we had seen but wanted to revisit, then we did the Imax dinosaur movie and the Cosmic Collisions planetarium show one after the other. They were pretty good, but we might not have enjoyed them so much if we hadn’t been so desperate to sit down by then.

We headed down to Greenwich Village so I could show the kids around a bit, have dinner, whatever. Audrey would have liked to spend more time shopping, Carolyn would have preferred to go straight home. Ah, well. I might just take Audrey up for a day sometime and let Carolyn stay home. Next trip will probably be Liberty Science Center instead of Manhattan, though.

In other news, Dave has gone missing now. I don’t want to make a whole post about this because it’s really upsetting, and I don’t think Audrey is allowing herself to think he might be gone for good. A volunteer animal rescue person had told me they’d gotten reports of cats that had been clearly killed (she didn’t elaborate, thank goodness) a couple of streets north of us, but I didn’t give it much thought. Rhonda could have gotten killed somewhere and we’d never know because she didn’t have a tag. Dave, however, is a very street-savvy cat, not likely to get in trouble with cars or other animals, and he had a collar and tag – if I had found a cat dead somewhere and could contact the owner, I would. That he’s disappeared and we haven’t heard a thing makes me fear the worst. If there were a way I could change Toby and Calvin into indoor cats, I’d do it right now, but once they’ve been outdoors, you can’t keep them in. Until Toby learned how to operate the dog door, she’d go from bed to bed in the middle of the night walking on people and yowling until someone got sick of it, got up, and let her out. This business of having a pet disappear without a trace, and suspecting an unpleasant end, sucks.

Labor Day So Far

Labor Day So Far

We were all up at the crack of dawn this morning. The teensiest beginning of a smidge of the crack of dawn. We threw on clothes and drove to Ortley Beach to watch the sun rise. I don’t remember there being so much trash on the beach last year, but at least it was almost all in cans, which were being emptied by the town as we arrived. There were a few people, lots of them with their metal detectors, and a few who were, like us, there to enjoy the dawn. I don’t understand the appeal of metal detectors any more than I do Bingo. It’s gambling, and it’s expensive and time-consuming gambling. If I want to dream of a windfall, I’ll play the lottery.

Anyway, the dawn was amazing, as usual. You never realize how quickly the sun moves across the sky until you have a point of reference like the horizon. It takes less than 15 minutes from the time you see the first bright edge to when it’s cleared the water.

Sunrise at Ortley Beach

After, we went to Toms River Diner, had a big breakfast and a ton of coffee. When we got home, I threw on painting clothes, touched up the office and the furniture, peeled up tape and gathered dropcloths and trash, and marveled at my mad painting skills. The girls and I left hubby to assemble his furniture (got him a new desk at IKEA!) and headed out shopping. I hate to buy them clothes before their annual October growth spurt, but it was that or send them to school pants-free. Got back, moved the desk, unpacked bags, and started the job that defines me as a person, laundry. Heh. I joke, of course.

It’s a lovely day. We may or may not hit the beach later today after we think most of the vacationers have gone. We want to move the fishtank back in from the garage, and I’d like to be able to make more of a dent in the laundry because it’s all over the floor and in baskets in my room and it’s not sanding or painting. I think it would be nice to finally read the morning papers, too, and the chairs by the pond are waiting for me.

On My List

On My List

Besides painting. Vacuum. Sew. Apply Frontline to cats. Only four cats. Thinking about that still makes me sad. Write a check for band shoes. These shoes are cheap – maybe I’ll make the kids wear them all the time. I can’t think about much else, because I’m tired and headachey and it’s still raining, and now my ear is hurting sharply again. My tooth, ear, and neck have never stopped being a bother since. . .what, December? Maybe November. It’s been a long time, anyway. It’s just that now there’s pain, not just discomfort or ache. I’m going to campaign for the doctor to send me in for an MRI or a CAT scan, whatever will see inside my head the best.

It’s my birthday today. I didn’t remember until hubby wished me a happy birthday when he called to let me know he’d gotten to the office in one piece. Funny how they mean less and less as time goes on. Maybe I’ll get excited and throw a big party in three years when I hit 50. It’s been so long since I’ve thrown a big party, and I used to be the hostess with the mostest. I’ll practice by starting to plan hubby’s 50th – if I can pull that off, then maybe there’s hope for me again. Heh. My milestones, though, are based more on the kids’ milestones, or other happenings in life. For the girls, there are changes, significant events, new things in their lives each year. Presents and parties and such make sense. Presents don’t make sense for someone who doesn’t need to wait for something she/he needs or wants (except waiting to be able to afford it, of course). Parties for the sake of socializing, parties to mark an event that everyone can celebrate instead of making one person the guest of honor, those seem more appealing to me. I might need to bring back the annual housewarming party. If we ever get a friggin’ mason to actually come through, we can have a new walkway party, the way we had a new driveway party at the old house, but minus the chalk and tricycles, I suppose.

I’m not really as depressed or down as I sound here, just weatherbeaten. Since the systems that bring rain or snow wreak such havoc on my sinuses and give me headaches and affect my sleep (which gives me body aches, too) I just feel icky overall. When I feel like this, I look at clutter, unfinished projects, and even things I actually want to do as oppressive – and feel like running away from them rather than doing anything about them. Once I get started, I’ll be much better. I should probably blog after I get something done, rather than before I get motivated to do it, ya think?